Sex is part of nature
The famous American actress Marilyn Monroe said, with a good sense of humor, that " sex is part of nature, and I get along wonderfully with nature ." That is why it is especially curious that something so natural can raise so much dust and even rejection. In fact, throughout history, a number of erroneous beliefs about sexuality have emerged.
In addition, all this, despite the fact that many of these beliefs regarding sex have been disregarded by science itself, which has shown its lack of truth with numerous studies. However, they remain installed in the collective imagination of many societies, even causing dysfunctions, discomfort or even relationship problems.
"Is sex dirty? Only when it's done right"
Misconceptions about sexuality
These erroneous beliefs about sexuality in certain environments can lead to jokes and jokes, but the truth is that, far from being innocuous, they can end up causing personal problems . Unfortunately, these problems have no real or scientific basis, only social, and come from misconceptions. So..., let's get to know some of the most deeply rooted and common?
Masturbation is a single men's thing
Interestingly, this is a still widespread sexual myth. It turns out that, for some people, autonomous stimulation is solely a matter of men, if possible, single. Moreover, for many others, the fact that there are people with a partner who masturbate is an indicator that these people are not satisfied with the shared sexual life. However, what science tells us is that one fact has nothing to do with the other.
In fact, thinking like this is a mistake. Stimulation or self-stimulation is important and even healthy. It is a fundamental way to learn, get to know yourself and know what we like and what not when it comes to reaching an orgasm. Thus, we could say that masturbation is enjoyable and profitable for both men and women, with or without a partner.
The first vaginal penetration is always painful and does not lead to pregnancy
First, there is no relationship between novelty and pregnancy . It is true that it is a complex process in which many factors intervene, but much less the fact that it is a first relationship is between them.
Second, referring to pain, it is true that some factors can influence it. Although the vagina is elastic and designed for sexual enjoyment rather than pain, first-time nervousness, and even high expectations, could lead to lack of lubrication. That is an important factor in the appearance of pain. But it does not always have to happen, although it is difficult not to feel certain nerves, given the importance that is given to the "first time" in our culture.
The female orgasm always comes through penetration
We go with another false belief about sex. The clitoris is the female point where there are more nerve endings , so the greatest possibilities for pleasure are found there, and not in the vagina.
However, we can distinguish between two types of female orgasms, vaginal and clitoral. In fact, the ideal, in addition to penetration, is that there is also stimulation of the clitoris , so the sensation of pleasure is much more complete. But one is not exclusive of the other, and penetration does not have to be the only method to achieve orgasm.
Penis size, does it matter?
This is one of the issues that can cause more problems in man. Does the size of your penis really matter? The truth is that no. Obviously, any penis, within the measures considered normal, can provoke and produce a pleasant orgasm .
As we have said, the vagina is elastic, and it is prepared to adapt to any size. However, if we talk about minimal or exaggerated proportions, we get into physical problems. But when it comes to normality, volume has nothing to do with the proportion of pleasure it can cause .
The "reverse gear" is a reliable contraceptive
Another of the great myths that from time to time becomes fashionable among young people, mainly. But in reality it is totally false. When the man is excited, he releases pre-seminal fluid as a consequence of his state.
As you may have already imagined, this liquid does contain sperm , which could perfectly fertilize an egg. It is true that the odds are lower for their number, but they are perfectly capable of getting a girl pregnant and, of course, of transmitting any sexually transmitted disease.
Even today, with all the means to inform us that we have, these 5 erroneous beliefs about sexuality are still very valid , incredible as it may seem. It is our job to work to banish them once and for all.
When we reason about a problem, we tend to use a simple and useful outline most of the time. This way of thinking is what is known as linear thinking.
Coercive persuasion is a cognitive mechanism that operates through false beliefs and misconceptions. It leads a victim to think that it is desirable and convenient to perpetuate the bond that he maintains with his aggressor.
In couple relationships there is always a certain degree of commitment and, of course, seeking the company of the person you love. However, some people have an excessive emotional dependence on their partners .